feat: support starlette v1

[waketzheng]

Description

Currently, when I run

cd examples/starlette
uv pip install uvicorn
python main.py

Output is:

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/Users/mac10.12/github/tortoise-orm/examples/starlette/main.py", line 20, in <module>
    @app.route("/", methods=["GET"])
     ^^^^^^^^^
AttributeError: 'Starlette' object has no attribute 'route'. Did you mean: 'router'?

After changed it to be using Route, it raises:

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/Users/mac10.12/github/tortoise-orm/examples/starlette/main.py", line 44, in <module>
    register_tortoise(
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^
        app, db_url="sqlite://:memory:", modules={"models": ["models"]}, generate_schemas=True
        ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    )
    ^
  File "/Users/mac10.12/github/tortoise-orm/tortoise/contrib/starlette/__init__.py", line 83, in register_tortoise
    @app.on_event("startup")
     ^^^^^^^^^^^^
AttributeError: 'Starlette' object has no attribute 'on_event'

Motivation and Context

To support starlette 1.0.0

How Has This Been Tested?

ci

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have added the changelog accordingly.
• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.
• All new and existing tests passed.

[codspeed-hq]

Merging this PR will not alter performance

✅ 24 untouched benchmarks

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_{Comparing waketzheng:starlette-v1 (702f9d6) with develop (a394ab2)}